About a week ago, I returned home from a trip to my hometown in the suburbs of Chicago. I spent almost three weeks at home. I ended up deciding to go home in the early hours of the Wednesday before Thanksgiving. After about four hours of sleep, packing and picking up a rental car (because my poor 21-year-old T-Bird probably would not make it back), I was on the road in a 2011 Chevrolet Malibu.
For the first time ever, I drove all the way back home by myself. It was almost 800 miles – and I managed to drive straight through. Somehow I managed to do this without coffee and was fueled by a desire to go home — and Dr. Pepper.
It’s funny how losing a job, and what feels like everything else, can bring a fresh perspective to your life. I found myself appreciating the drive home in a way I never have before. Driving through the mountains of North Carolina and in to Tennessee, I was reminded of how vast and beautiful this country of ours really is.
The only downside to the trip was my usual luck. Somehow, I wound up with the only rental car on the lot that must have had a small whole in its right rear tire. I had to stop about five times along the way to fill up the tire with more air but I was determined like Steve Martin in “Planes, Trains and Automobiles” to make it back home to Chicago for Thanksgiving.
By the time I arrived back home, it was 3:30 a.m. CT on Thanksgiving. I made it in one piece!
Had I not been laid off, I would have not been able to have gone home since I would have had to work Black Friday. In some ways, it was a blessing in disguise. It was great to have a home cooked meal with most of my family (my dad had to work) and just feel truly at home.
I spent the next couple of weeks meeting up with various contacts to see what jobs may be available back home in Chicago. I was hoping for something with a PR or marketing agency working with sports or entertainment, but really anything would do.
During college, I worked my butt off interning as much as possible. In the course of three years, I managed to complete six internships. I feel this truly paid off by being able to meet with so many wonderful people who were ready and willing to give advice and let me know if anything is available. I feel truly blessed to have people like them in my life.
Also while I was home, I was able to catch up with many of my friends. Maybe it was just what the doctor ordered but being reminded of how many great people I know back me who support me in anything and everything I do, really helped me feel more motivated to continue my job search.
With a trip to Outback with my best friend, a night out on the town in the city with another, and numerous other outings with friends, I found myself missing home more than ever since I can’t see so many of my closest friends as often any more. I started to wonder if maybe God’s plan is to bring me back to Chicago in some new, fabulous job? Only time will tell.
After a couple weeks of seeing family, friends and former colleagues, I found myself back on the road but this time going back to Charlotte. Somehow I managed to once again drive straight through all the way back to Charlotte.
Feeling more motivated once I returned back to Charlotte, I was reminded of a quote from Lance Armstrong, “Never lose your beginner’s spirit.”
Time to get back to the job hunt…